© Lowe Thomas
The effects of failed relationships in the Big Boy community. As a promoter of Big Boy parties, it has come to my attention that some of us within the Big Boy community are somewhat scared to make that first approach, albeit in a club or any other social function. The communication that I have received is that there is a strong fear of rejection and shame. So I was pondering how would a Big Boy change the perception in this situation? So here's my suggestion: Walk out on faith and allow yourself the confidence to step up to the plate and make that approach in a club or any other social setting.
And remember REJECTION often times is not about you, its the loss of the guy you were confident enough to approach. Always after making that approach pat yourself on the back as a job well done! And if he does not have the fortitude to know BIG BOYS is where its at, than move on to the next guy who peaks your interest, and try again. It's like fishing your the bait and your confidence is the hook. Just an opinion of a guy who has found luck in making the first approach, with undying confidence.
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